DatingAdvice.com’s Award Winning Midlife Expert Dating Coach for Marriage Minded Men and Women After 40 April Braswell When you’re looking to find love after 40 and over 50 Coach April’s expert advice to men and women in 40s and 50s is to take up social dancing: Salsa Dancing, Square Dancing, West Coast Swing, and Contra Dancing. More so than Ballroom Dancing, these social dancing style offer singles more options to casually and informally socialize and meet new people. Look for the more informal social club style of clubs. Many of the more folk dancing based dance styles of Square Dancing and Contra Dancing are social club based with sponsored dances where Single Moms and Single Dads can also bring their children and dance with them. Many Boys Scouts and Girls Scouts troops sponsor special square dance events. Check them out in your area. Every club is unique. There were several social dancing options for WCS West Coast Swing on the San Francisco Bay Area SF/San Jose Peninsula, like Upstairs at Beardsley’s. However, it is a very different, more dance studio based dance scene in Southern California. If there are social dance clubs to which you belong or like to attend, please feel free to cite them with a description and a link (I’m allowing links for this.) in the comments below.